If you’re like most adults, you have a love-hate relationship with your budget. You love the hope and optimism your budget gives you at the start of the month, and you hate tallying up the numbers at the end of the month only to realize that you didn’t stick to your budget – again. It is a discouraging cycle, to say the least. And it causes many people to abandon budgeting once and for all and leaves them wondering why budgets fail.
The biggest reason why budgets fail isn’t just about numbers or behavior. Budgets don’t fail or succeed because you switched from Excel to paper-and-pencil. And they don’t fail because you missed a day recording purchases. The truth is that most budgets fail because you haven’t given yourself a good enough reason to follow it.
Examples of Why Budgets Fail So Easily
When many people set-up a budget for the first time, they follow a simple template or pattern their budget on an example they have seen. This practice makes sense, but it isn’t fail-proof.
Part of the reason why budgets fail is the fact that many people simply copy budget parameters without considering their own realistic circumstances. For example, if you use the popular app Every Dollar to create a budget, the app guides you to create your budget based upon the following recommended percentages:
These categories and recommended percentages are definitely a great starting point when building a budget, but blindly following them without considering the specifics of your situation can doom your budget to fail.
For example, maybe you aren’t big on recreational activities. Or maybe you work from home and don’t own a vehicle. In those cases, blindly allocating 5-15% of your total budgeted spending to those categories wouldn’t make realistic sense or add any value to your life. Failing to give each dollar a specific purpose in this manner is one example of why budgets fail.
A second example of common budget failure is setting unrealistic goals. For example, if you’re currently spending an average of $900 per month on groceries for two people, aiming to cut this spending down to $450 in one month isn’t very realistic. It would be much more sensible and achievable to gradually reduce the budget to $450 over the course of 3-4 months.
Similarly, a third reason why budgets fail so often lies in creating a budget that is too restrictive. When you create a budget, think of it less as a drill sergeant trying to inflict misery and more like a coach who is encouraging you to win. It’s much easier to follow a person, or in this case, a budget plan, when you know that it is leading you to where you’re trying to go.
Prevent Budget Failure By Creating a Values-Based Budget
If budgets fail because they blindly follow templates, set unrealistic goals, and tend to be too restrictive, how to create a budget to help you Take Back Control of Your Life and Money becomes clearer:
A successful budget is one which combines recommended percentages with your realistic circumstances and is designed to help you achieve the financial goals that you value the most.
If you’re going to create a budget that will succeed, you have to start with a vision of what financial success looks like to you! The best way to create this vision is by identifying your values.
Why are values the key to a successful budget? Your values are what are most important to you. When you identify your values, you realize the important reasons why you decided to create a budget in the first place.
Simply put, a budget without values sets empty, meaningless targets. If you don’t understand and feel the significance of your budget goals, you will not stay motivated to stick to your budget once the initial excitement wears off.
This is similar to filling a jar with coins for no specific reason.
Put another way: Values are the driving force for meaningful goals. Show me a significant goal, and I will point out the values that underpin the goal. Values are the reason that Michael Jordan became the greatest basketball player of all-time after getting cut from his high school team. His love for Competition and Accomplishment gave him all the fuel and motivation to stick to his goals, work hard, and become the best.
Again, the reason why budgets fail is because we haven’t given ourselves a good enough reason to follow them. Identifying your values and linking them to your budget solves the problem!
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I strongly believe that the reason why budgets fail is they focus too much on “how” to manage money responsibly and not enough on “why” it matters. A values-based budget can help you fix the problem.
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What struggles keep you from sticking to your budget? In your opinion, what is the reason why budgets fail?
Could you afford to literally throw away over $2,000 each year? If you’re like most families, the shocking answer is YES – because that’s exactly what you’re doing. No, you’re not tossing cash in the trash, but your food waste is costing you at least that much – if not more!
A study from the Natural Resources Defense Council revealed the unthinkable – American households throw away $165 billion in food waste every year, which equates to $2,200 per family. Yes, that’s $183 per month! And according to the report, this figure has increased by 4 times over the rates from the 1960s.
13 Ways to Cut Your Food Waste and Save Money
If these statistics make you feel sad, shocked, or even angry, then you’re ready to take back control of your food budget and stop wasting money on food each and every month. The following tips will help you control food waste and stop throwing away your hard-earned money each month.
1. Expiration dates are a guideline, not a hard-fast rule.
Thanks to well-meaning friends and fear-mongering family members, most people think expiration dates are rigid rules which were put into place to prevent food poisoning. Not so fast! The truth is that most expiration dates have little to do with food safety.
Most products today are labeled with one of two different types of dates – “best by” and “sell by.” Best by dates indicate quality, maximum freshness, and peak flavor, while sell by dates exist to help retailers ensure that they are only selling fresh stock. In any event, these dates actually tell you very little about the safety of food products, as most products should remain safe to eat for several days after these dates have passed.
The best rule of thumb is to use your best judgment when evaluating food freshness and safety. If it looks bad, smells bad, or otherwise worries you, be cautious and toss it – just don’t let dates scare you into unnecessary food waste.
2. Freeze Foods Before They Go Bad
We’ve all been there – you have a bad day at work and pick-up pizza rather than whipping up chicken alfredo, but you don’t want to waste perfectly good chicken. Most food waste can be prevented by freezing unused foods, especially meats and vegetables, before they have gone bad.
When you freeze items, use a permanent marker to label the item with the date you froze it so you can be sure you use it within the recommended window. Also include the date by which you should use the food (see the guidelines from FoodSafety.gov).
3. Check your refrigerator temperature
Another way to reduce food waste and stop throwing away money is to prolong the usefulness of the food that you buy and use it all. The problem is that once you buy food you begin a race against the clock, and your food starts to develop bacteria.
You can keep your food fresh for longer by making sure that your refrigerator is set at no higher than 40 degrees – most refrigerator manufacturers and food scientists recommend 35-38 degrees. If you maintain the right temperatures your food will stay fresh longer.
4. Don’t Stuff Your Pantry and Refrigerator
Buying in bulk and taking advantage of sales is a great way to save money, but going overboard can lead to costly food waste.
When you overload your pantry, it is difficult to see what food you have in stock and use it before it goes bad; the same can be said for your refrigerator. And to make matters worse, refrigerated foods will not remain fresh if your refrigerator is jam-packed, as it needs adequate space to properly run cooling cycles.
5. Make a List and Stick to It!
I am constantly amazed at the number of people I see grocery shopping without a list. I love lists so much that I have had to hold myself back from making lists of lists – true story – but a shopping list is a must for all shopping trips.
When you shop without a list, you are more likely to buy extra food you don’t need, which leads directly to future food waste. Stores know this, and they prey on our tendencies to give in to impulse and buy items on end-caps and special displays. Stick to your list and you’ll avoid wasting money.
6. Use left over ingredients in future meals
Left over night was one of my biggest fears as a kid, but today it is one of my favorites. I enjoy the challenge of using whatever we have on hand to make an interesting meal.
For example, suppose you had left over cooked carrots, a can of crushed tomatoes, two grilled chicken breasts, brown rice, and green onions. You could add in Moroccan spices and make something delicious like this:
7. Make vegetable stock
If you have left over vegetables that will otherwise go to waste, you can easily reuse them to make vegetable stock. Here is a simple recipe to pin for later.
8. Plan and Serve Smaller Portions
When my wife and I first were married, I used to get in trouble for taking large servings that left us with not quite enough left overs for a second meal. She started plating my dinners for me, and I never complained because it was nice to be treated so well!
If you routinely find yourself tossing small portions at the end of a meal, dividing up portions and setting aside food is an easy way to cut food waste.
9. Take left overs for lunch
If you do find yourself with left overs that aren’t quite big enough for another dinner, use them as lunches instead. They will taste better than fast food and save you money.
10. Keep perishable foods in sight
Last month I found a wilted and mushy apple behind a bottle of olive oil on our lazy susan. It must have rolled out of the bag when I put the apples away.
One of the easiest ways to cut food waste is to keep perishables where you can see them. This will also help you to make healthier snack choices.
11. Wash fruits and vegetables right away
While it is good to have perishables conveniently in sight, this won’t help you prevent food waste unless they are prepped and ready to eat. If you wash produce soon after returning from the store, your family will have no excuses about not eating their fruits and vegetables.
12. Plan better meals
At the end of the day, no tips will help you eliminate food waste if you’re not planning smart meals. If you’re willing to sit down, read recipes, and form a meal plan, chances are good that you will be successful.
The truth is that not everyone is good at meal planning. Some people just don’t have time to plan well. If that is you, there’s no shame in admitting it.
I recommend $5 Meal Plan for those who struggle to make a plan and follow it. Here’s how it works:
Each Friday at 11 AM ET, you’ll receive a meal plan in your e-mail inbox. The meal plan includes a shopping list and a detailed menu complete with the following:
Five dinner entrees with sides – Each week they include one freezer friendly, one slow cooker, and one 20-minute meal.
One lunch and one breakfast, plus,
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Be honest: which picture does your refrigerator look like? If you don’t take regular, consistent steps to organize your food and rotate items, you’re setting yourself up for unnecessary and costly food waste. If you make a plan to regularly clean out both your pantry and refrigerator and rotate stock based on dates, you will save yourself time and money.
Stop Wasting Food and Money Today!
You would never intentionally toss $2,200 in the trash, but that is exactly what you’re doing if you close your browser now and fail to act on what you’ve just read. The above tips are easily to implement, and they offer fail-proof solutions to help you cut food waste and save money at the same time. Pick a few and get started today!
What tips and tricks help you avoid food waste and save money?
It’s true: Many people hate the B word. I’m talking about BUDGETING. These days, budgeting is not in style. Most of my friends do not have a budget. Unbelievably, the state of Illinois recently went an entire fiscal year without a budget. But the unpopular truth is that budgeting is the number one way to make sure that you are on track with money.
I like to think of my budget as a road map. It tells me where to go and how to get to my chosen destination – hopefully as efficiently as possible. But I am still the one who puts together the map and follows each step. Putting together a road map is easy, and so is making a budget – sticking to a budget can be much harder.
It has been many years since I created my first budget. In September 2009, I got my first real job and was on my own for the first time. Just before the school year started, I accepted a job teaching music, moved from Michigan to Illinois, and found a roommate.
At the time, I had no idea how to manage money. I had just read The Total Money Makeover, but I didn’t know the first thing about budgeting an “adult” paycheck. This was going to be the first time I had ever earned a paycheck which included a comma in the amount field! So I did the responsible thing – I sat down and made the budget you see below.
My first attempt at a budget was OK. I overspent my budget in many categories and spent more than I earned overall. To be honest, I’m sure I would have fared far worse without a budget.
15 BUDGETING TIPS FOR EVERYONE
Looking back, I wish someone had sat down with me at age 21 and showed me how to budget. Figuring it out on my own through trial and error was tough. Today, my wife and I are on the same page with money thanks to our budget. Whether you’re looking to start your first budget or fine tune your budgeting skills, the following 21 tips will help you take back control of your life and money.
1. Make a Budget Every Month
Every new month brings new expenses and circumstances, which makes this first budgeting tip the most important: you need to create a new budget every single month.
You can use previous monthly budgets as a template, but your budget needs to be realistic if it is going to help you. For example, your expenses in December (holiday gifts, wrapping paper, decorations, baking ingredients) look completely different than those in July (sun screen, bug spray, Popsickles). Plan ahead for variable expenses and include them in your budget.
2. Manage Housing Costs
For homeowners, housing is likely to be your biggest expense until you pay off your mortgage. If it has been a while since you have considered refinancing, now is a perfect time to consider your options and possibly save hundreds of dollars each month. I recommend you take a few minutes to check out offers with GuideToLenders and LendingTree. Both processes took me less than 3 minutes to examine refinancing rates.
If you just starting out and are renting, finding a roommate can help you hack away half (or more) of your housing costs from your budget each month. In my case, I avoided spending $1,000 per month for a one-bedroom apartment and spent $400 to rent a home in a two-bedroom condo. By sharing costs I avoided spending 40% of my net income on housing costs.
3. Include All of Your Debt Obligations
When budgeting you may feel the temptation to leave out debt payments, especially if you have student loans in deferment. But avoiding your debts will not make them go away, so gather this information, including total principal, interest rates, minimum payments, and loan terms for each debt.
If you’re not sure how much you owe and to whom, you should pull your credit reports from all three major bureaus. If you are also in the market for intelligent identify theft monitoring, MyFico can provide both. Or you can pull a free credit score report from MyFreeScoreNow.com. You can also contact the appropriate customer service departments, if you have their information, to gather loan balances. Once you have a clear picture of your debt, include the monthly minimum payments in your budget.
Preparing your own meals at home will accomplish two goals: you will save money, and you will not gain weight eating low nutrition/high calorie fast food. If you’re willing to learn basic cooking techniques and how to use spices effectively, you can slash your food budget significantly. And if planning isn’t your strong-suit, $5 Meal Plan will do it for you and send meal plans to your inbox every Friday!
5. Live simply
If you have set a precedent of living extravagantly, you have set yourself up for failure. Do you remember college life? When I was in college, I appreciated a coffee and bagel just as much as I do a steak dinner today. If you strive to live simply and manage your expectations, budgeting will be much easier.
6. Don’t lease or carry a car payment
When it comes to cars, the key is to make sure pride doesn’t influence your decisions. If your current vehicle gets you from point A to B, it’s a keeper, especially if you own it outright.
7. Brew Your Own Coffee (and Get a Pot With a Timer)
In general, the small things like coffee won’t ruin your budget. So by all means, enjoy the occasional coffee without guilt. But if you’re in the habit of buying a $5 mocha every morning, it’s time to pump the brakes and make your own coffee.
I learned this the hard way when at the end of my first budgeted month I had spent $80.77 on coffee on my way to work. I had a decent Mr. Coffee Coffeemaker, but it didn’t have a timer feature. If I happened to be running late to work in the morning, I resorted to a quick Starbucks stop, which cost me significant money without contributing to my happiness or nutrition.
8. Stay in
I get it: many people, especially singles, will feel the temptation to go out night after night. This habit will kill your budget. Instead, invite friends or your significant other back to your place, where food and drinks are cheap and Netflix is nearly free.
9. Save With Groupon and Restaurant.com
I’m not even sure if Groupon and Restaurant.com existed when I made my first budget, but taking advantage of them today is a key part of our dining out experience. With either platform, you can purchase certificates for what is usually a fraction of the value, which allows you to realize significant savings and still enjoy a night out. The most common Restaurant.com offer is $10 for a $25 gift certificate.
9. Build an emergency fund as quickly as possible
A key component to your budget is your emergency fund. When your budget cannot handle unexpected expenses, your emergency fund will ensure you don’t have to swipe your credit card. Whenever possible, include contributions to your emergency fund in your budget.
I have always given 10% to charity and missions organizations, but I know this isn’t for everyone. If you’re not a natural giver, start small. Even $10 per month will benefit worthwhile organizations, and the act of giving will be freeing. You will learn to value the money you have and appreciate the little things.
11. Share Your Budget
Finding a friend to help you with budgeting can be eye-opening. He or she may find solutions or wasted money that you missed. And sharing with another person can help you stick to your budget.
12. Budget In Fun
If you only budget for required expenses, you will quickly grow to hate your budget. Plan for fun expenses when budgeting to avoid budget burnout and create a budget that you can live with each month.
13. Budget Based on Your Values
Your budget should align with what you value most. In other words, your budget should be a reflection of your priorities. Someone who barely knows you should be able to look at your budget and determine what is important to you.
It is OK to explain to people that you are on a budget. In fact, if you keep it a secret, it will be more difficult to stick to your budget. Be honest with friends about how you’re using a budget to take back control of your life and money. It will be less awkward if you explain before you are invited out for drinks and dinner every weekend. And it will make it that much easier to say no.
It won’t always be simple, but budgeting will keep you on track to take back your life and your money. At first, budgeting may feel restrictive, but remember – you are in charge. Your budget is only a road map for your money, and you are the one who charts the course. Use these 15 budgeting hacks to improve your own budget today!
Readers, what budgeting tips help you stay on track?
I am often asked, “What’s the key to better money management?” I always remind people that money is like unsorted laundry: it is helpless without you. If your finances require some decluttering, whether minor or major, now is the time to take control and do what is necessary to provide the organization and structure your finances desperately need.
You can start by implementing these five easy steps toward better money management. If you do, you’ll spend no more than 10 minutes managing your money per day!
1. Automate Your Finances As Much Possible
I value time as much as I value money. By automating common expenses, such as mortgage or rent payments, utility bills (such as water, trash, electricity, gas, television/internet, and mobile phone), life insurance and disability monthly premiums, car payments, student loan payments, retirement account contributions, and even savings, you can save yourself significant time, energy, stress, worry, and, of course, money. As an added bonus, your days of writing countless checks, licking envelopes, and purchasing stamps will be over forever!
Most major banks will allow you to set-up auto-pay on these bills with very little effort involved. You can even negotiate with most providers to establish a chosen day of the month for your auto-draft to occur, which will allow you to spread out your payments to align with your pay periods. Some institutions, particularly student loan servicers, may provide a small APR reduction when you sign-up for auto draft and paperless billing.
Related Post: Escape From Student Loans: How Two Educators Paid Off $17,831.65 in 54 Days
2. Sign-up for Paperless Billing
One of my daily chores is walking to the mailbox. You can restore fun to the act of walking to the mailbox each day by signing-up for paperless billing with all providers who offer this service. Doing so will literally and figuratively decrease the clutter in your mailbox and your finances.
Furthermore, with electronic copies housed by your various institutions on secure servers, your information will be protected, you will be less likely to experience identity theft, and you will not need to fear losing an important document or missing a bill in the mail.
When it comes to monthly budgeting, I believe everyone should create at least one budget utilizing paper, a pencil, and a calculator. In the interest of decluttering and saving time, however, the average consumer has plenty of online budgeting tools from which to choose.
After utilizing Gazelle Budget for many years, I recently transitioned to a paid subscription version of EveryDollar, a product created by the team at Ramsey Solutions. EveryDollar is a very effective way to create detailed monthly budgets, track spending by linking with all of your financial accounts, and monitor progress on your goals. I particularly enjoy the features which allow users to create sinking funds and budget for irregular expenses. And the best part is that my wife and I can both use the app!
4. Use Cash Allowances to Pay for Basic Spending
While an automated budgeting platform can certainly ease the burden of tracking a multitude of debit and credit transactions within your monthly budget, I recommend providing cash allowances within basic categories such as groceries, restaurants, gas, and discretionary spending. You can include these cash allowances in your budget with one simple transaction on the first day of the month.
5. Eliminate Your Debts
For many families, debt can represent a significant percentage of their monthly budgeted income. When you shed the shackles of debt, you free up additional streams of income which may be re-allocated as automated contributions toward liquid savings, a home down payment, retirement accounts, non-retirement investments, or savings toward the purchase of rental properties.
Additionally, without multiple debt obligations, the sheer number of your monthly transactions will be reduced. Fewer transactions will lead to even greater simplification. You will also experience the peace that comes with no fear of missing a payment or incurring late fees and interest charges. Lastly, you will not experience guilt each month as financial institutions earn interest on your hard-earned income.
Final Recommendations for Better Money Management
If you are willing to dedicate a few hours this week, you can implement the above steps to get on the path toward better money management – then maintain a routine in less than 10 minutes per day! The sacrifices you make in doing so will pay great dividends, pun partially-intended, for your financial future. As a result, you will be free to turn your attention from fretting and worrying about your finances and onto building your future.
Readers, what are your tips and tricks for better money management?
How often do you catch yourself wasting money on absolutely stupid things? Do you want to stop wasting money? Some things – like speeding tickets, broken dishes, and extra trips to the doctor caused by illness – are just plain bad luck. Many other things are self-inflicted wounds caused by laziness, not planning ahead, or ignorance.
No matter the cause, these expenses cost you and me hundreds of dollars every month! If you want to stop wasting money on these stupid, unnecessary purchases and expenses, there is hope!
5 Tips to Stop Wasting Money in 2017
The following 5 tips to stop wasting money are easy to implement and will get you on track to stop wasting money and Take Back Control of Your Life and Money!
1. Brew Your Own Coffee
Coffee is inexpensive to purchase yourself, yet its price skyrockets when you pay Dunkin Donuts, Starbucks, or the local coffeehouse to brew it for you. At minimum, a cuppa Joe on the go will cost over $1, while the same cup brewed at home will cost pennies.
No, brewing your own coffee won’t make in you a millionaire, but if you’re in the habit of dropping $5-10 per day at Starbucks, that’s nonsense!
2. Minimize Shipping Costs When Shopping Online
Recently, I ordered a complete set of seven Star Wars movie posters for our home theater room. I shopped for the best deal I could find online, and when it came time to checkout, I was faced with many shipping options. I chose free shipping because I thought ahead in advance and ordered my items before I actually needed them.
While online shopping is simple and time efficient, it is often more costly because many people elect to pay a fortune in shipping costs in order to receive their items within 1-3 days. By shopping in advance, or taking advantage of Amazon Prime which comes with free two-day shipping on thousands of items, you can stop wasting money on sky-high shipping costs.
3. Skip Expensive, High-Calorie Appetizers
I enjoy greasy appetizer platters just as much as the next guy, but at $8 and nearly 3000 calories, I nearly always regret my indulgence. Sure, $8 won’t make me significantly richer; no, I won’t likely nickle-and-dime my way into developing a million dollar investment portfolio.
But I can stop wasting money on appetizers by acknowledging that I have better options. And besides, appetizers generally leave me unable to finish my meal without overeating.
4. Cancel Your Newspaper Subscription
Currently, my wife and I pay for a Sunday subscription to The Chicago Tribune. Shameful confession time: the edition from last Sunday is still sitting at the end of our driveway as I write this on a Wednesday. I may as well just burn my subscription fee every month, as I’m clearly not reading the paper.
Like any good American, I find my news from the most trustworthy source: my Facebook News Feed. In all seriousness, you and I need to stop wasting money on a newspaper that we do not read, especially when free news is available online.
My sources of choice have long been The Detroit News and The Detroit Free Press, both of which are available via mobile app. Your local paper is probably available free of charge.
5. Stop Buying Lottery Tickets and Betting
My thoughts on the lottery system are very divided. On one hand, proceeds from the lottery in my home state of Illinois support education and indirectly pay my teacher salary. On the other, I know that dozens of my dear friends are wasting their money on a daily or weekly basis.
I myself have only indulged in NCAA basketball tournament pools, which is admittedly different than the lottery (I also won the entire tournament and collected $900, but I digress. . .), but I plan to stop that this year, as well.
While a potential big payday is theoretically always just one ticket purchase or bet away, the odds of winning are microscopically small. In my opinion, the lottery system offers false hope to the hopeless; it is essentially a tax on the poor. Stop wasting money on lottery tickets and use the money saved to invest in index funds, real estate, or just toss the money into your savings account.
Saving Money Can Be Easy
If you’re ready stop the madness and looking for a helpful, easy way to ensure that you save the money you are no longer wasting, you can do it for FREE!
I use Digit to save money automatically each month towards upcoming purchases. In the fall, we used our savings to travel to Las Vegas for a much needed vacation! I can’t recommend the app enough, particularly for those who are prone to overspending.
Opening a Digit savings account is easy and only takes a few minutes. Digit uses secure encryption technology to link to your checking account and analyzes your spending. After it has gotten to know you and your habits, it automatically saves money for you every so often by moving money into a secure Digit savings account. Some days, it moves $5 into my savings account, and other days it may move $15 – it all depends upon my spending patterns. And I don’t agree with Digits savings plan, I can always pause savings or transfer money back into my checking account with a simple text command.
Today’s post, “41 Tips to Save Money,” was contributed by Tina Roth. Tina is passionate about helping people to make solid financial decisions, which motivated her to start her own personal finance blog,where she writes about money management tips and frugality. She is also the community manager at the finance guest post community.
How can I save money?
This is one of the most common questions asked by a lot of people.
Developing a habit of overspending can disrupt your whole plan of saving some money. And it can be very hard to change long-rooted bad habits. However, in order to escape from this trap of unnecessary spending, we need to find some effective ways to save money. Check out the list below and find a few new ways to save money this month!
41 Effective and Easy Ways to Save Money
Undoubtedly, there are many ways to save money. The choice to pursue any of these avenues will be dependent upon your lifestyle and preferences. Just go through this amazing list to discover some effective money saving tips.
1. Turn off your Television:
This is one of the best ways to cut down a regular expense. Paying a lower electricity bill along with staying away from those provoking commercials can actually be the outcome of your decision of cutting the cable connection or switching off the TV.
2. Keep Track of Your Spending:
Think about keeping track of your spending habits, at least for a month or two. This will help you to handle your financial issues more efficiently.
Improve your credit score for staying benefited. Once you have a clear conception of your position, you can think about saving some money by following the above mentioned technique.
7. Build a Habit of Cooking:
Try to build the habit of cooking at home more often. This is a unique way of staying healthy as well as saving money. For the micro family, both husband and wife should take the responsibility of cooking.
8. Cancel the Gym Membership:
Think about canceling your annual gym membership if you are not going there frequently. This is a simple way to save money with minimal effort.
9. Buy in Bulk:
Buying in bulk might cost you some more money at a time, but soon you will notice the difference in the method of your savings. Opt for buying non-perishable goods in bulk.
10. Drop all the Bad Habits:
We all have bad habits. Try to get rid of those which negatively impact your health and your wallet. Stop consuming alcohol or moderate your consumption to save some money. If you smoke, stop as soon as possible.
11. Borrow a Dress:
Instead of buying an expensive dress, consider borrowing it from a friend. If you are not planning to wear a particular dress several times, it would be better for you to not waste money on it.
12. Install a Water Meter:
Install a water meter for keeping a track of your regular usage of water. Paying an excessive amount on water bills can easily be controlled by following this unique method.
13. Be Smart with your Car:
Avoid driving aggressively to stay away from accidents. Harsh driving can also cost you extra fuel, which will affect your monthly budget planning.
14. Find a Roommate:
One of the most effective ways to save money is finding a roommate to share all your expenses. The dream of living in a separate place will easily fit within your budget by getting a roommate.
Avail public transport system instead of owning a car. If you are not comfortable traveling by bus, you can also think about getting a bicycle.
20. Conduct Purchases from Online Sites:
It may seem a critical job for you, but do consider availing the service of online shopping forums. The yearlong discount they offer on different items can help you a lot to stick with your budget.
21. Make a List Before Shopping:
Make a list before you go out shopping. This will make you think twice before getting anything that is not on the list.
22. Use Discount Websites:
You can also think about visiting the discount websites for scoring some amazing discounts on traveling or events. In this way you would be able to save a lot of money.
23. Become a Vegetarian:
If you are really willing to drastically impact your budget and health, then think about becoming a vegetarian. You can also implement meatless meals.
24. Avoid Using Candles:
Instead of buying costly room fresheners and candles, opt for using baking soda for reducing the odor. A small container of cinnamon can also work fine.
25. Clean your House Yourself:
Avoid the luxury of employing housecleaning staffs. Try to clean your house by yourself to saving at least $100 a month.
26. Get a Grip on your Phone Bills:
If you are the one who spends a lot of time outside the home, it would be useless for you to maintain a home telephone and its bill. Also review plans for mobile phones and reduce expenses as you are able.
27. Set a Budget for Gifting:
As the season of festivity is knocking at the door, you should come up with some amazing gifting ideas. Don’t forget to set a budget before getting anything.
28. Unplug Electronic Devices:
Unplug electronic devices before leaving your home. This is an effective way to save money as those devices can consume power if you let the plugs in.
29. Repair your Clothes:
Don’t throw away your favorite shirt because of a broken button. Instead of getting a new shirt, think about repairing it.
30. Brew Your Own Coffee:
Replace your habit of drinking that daily caramel mocha and brew your own coffee. This will save you approximately $4 per day!
31. Car Pool:
Sharing a ride with your fellow worker can be a huge savings. The money you save from a car pool can definitely help you in achieving something big in the future.
32. Create a Separate Bank Account:
Think about having a separate bank account other than your savings account. It can help you in reducing the chances of borrowing money from the savings account.
33. Visit Libraries:
If you are a student or live in an area with an adequate public library, you should definitely think about borrowing books from libraries instead of buying them. This is indeed an awesome way to save money to plan your future properly.
34. Read Magazines Online:
If buying magazines is the habit you cannot escape, read them online.
35. Buy Generic Products:
Brand names are catchy, but sometimes you can find similar quality goods by shopping generic.
In order to save some money, grow your own vegetables to save on the cost of buying vegetables from the market.
37. Learn the Basics of House Maintenance:
It is very essential for you to know the basic art of maintaining a house. Try to acquire a bit of knowledge in this area, such as fixing lights, repairing walls, and painting.
38. Enjoy the Beauty of Nature:
Plan your weekend outings in beautiful parks instead of spending the evenings in fancy clubs or restaurants.
39. Buy a Water Filter:
Buying bottled water is one of the most common ways for the people to waste a lot of money. A water filter eliminates this need and helps you save money.
40. Use your Talent for Earning Extra Cash:
Maximize your skills! Starting a side business can help you earn more money, therefore increasing your ability to save.
Leading a healthy life without any trace of bad habits like drinking or smoking is very much essential. A healthy lifestyle will save you money in the long run.
Many times we end up spending large sums of money to fulfill our whims. The solution lies in curbing our impulsive buying nature. Just follow the above mentioned techniques to cut waste and save money today!
Today’s post is a collaborative effort between me, FinanceSuperhero, and my talented wife, Mrs. Superhero. In case you missed her recent article, 10 Tips for Self-Starter Entrepreneurs, I highly recommend it, as it remains one of the most-viewed articles on this website.
Within the article below, my thoughts and comments will be denoted by my traditional Gravatar, while Mrs. Superhero’s thoughts will be denoted by a similar Gravatar, as seen below.
Now, onto today’s post. Take it away, Mrs. Superhero!
Okay, I am just going to say it: adulting is hard! For most people, a big part of adulting is sticking to a budget. However, a budget shouldn’t mean that you can’t go out or you can’t have fun; a budget simply requires that you plan for these events.
As you grow in managing your finances, you will still want to go out on dates and have fun with your spouse or significant other! I am definitely the “deal finder” of the family and have enjoyed this skill since I was a young child. Finding a good bargain feels so good and rewarding. I absolutely LOVE that feeling!
I, too, happen to love that feeling, but Mrs. Superhero is almost certainly a better bargainer. She manages to find great deals on a monthly basis, which allows us to satisfy our urge to dine out semi-frequently without breaking the bank.
An example of Mrs. Superhero’s bargaining ability: As a college junior, Mrs. Superhero negotiated $1,000 off the sale price of a used vehicle by playing hard ball in negotiations with the seller. I thought for sure that she would lose the vehicle entirely, but the owner relented.
Here are some tips Mr. Superhero and I use for dining out:
1. Make the Most of Gift Cards – Aren’t they the best? Because we are both teachers, we are fortunate to receive many gift cards throughout the school year, particularly in December. We save these gift cards for months in which we are surprised by unexpected expenses. By shifting our budgeted dining funds to cover those unexpected expenses and using gift cards, we are able to avoid tapping into our emergency fund.
For example, today I actually used a gift card at Panera and had a wonderful Greek Goddess Salad – if you haven’t tried it, stop what you are doing, get in the car and go to Panera!
Mrs. Superhero and I have also had good experiences converting our credit card reward points into restaurant gift cards. I am careful to wait until a specific discount on desirable gift cards is offered before I redeem points.
2. Value Quality Over Quantity – Our favorite restaurant in the world (no exaggeration) is Montarra Grill in Algonquin, Illinois. It has been rated the number one non-Chicago restaurant in Illinois. Needless to say, Montarra is amazing but pricey.
When we dine here, we are making a choice. If we choose to open up the pursue strings and spend a significant sum on one meal, that means no more dinner dates for the rest of the month. Typically, we save dates like this for a special occasion like a birthday or anniversary.
Always save money in your budget to splurge for special occasions. Life is too short not to celebrate special occasions with your loved ones.
Be sure to inquire about possible deals and discounts when planning meals for special occasions. Because I made a reservation via e-mail for our recent anniversary dinner, Montarra provided a complimentary small plate.
Similarly, another local restaurant offers complimentary entrees to all members of their e-mail list during the two weeks before and after a member’s birthday. This is a great value which we took advantage of on the eve of my 30th birthday last month!
3. Enjoy a Coffee Date – Sticking to an agreed-upon budget can be difficult, especially when you have spent that allotted figure early in the month. When that happens, we resort to inexpensive coffee dates, as the next best thing to food is coffee.
Let’s just be real. Especially if you are a parent or work with children, coffee is a necessity in life. From 3-5 PM it is Happy Hour at Dunkin’ Donuts here in Chicagoland, and during this time, you can get an iced coffee or iced tea for only a dollar! (Mrs. Superhero is currently enjoying this deal!)
Not to be outdone, Starbucks is the mecca of coffee shops. I have never had a Starbucks mess up my order. So yes, they are more expensive than other places, but they provide much better service. Starbucks often offers half-priced Frappuccinos from 3-5 PM; unfortunately, they have not found a way to make them with half of the calories though! To figure out when the next deal will occur, you can sign up on Starbucks’ website to be ensured that you are receiving updates on the next deal.
4. Kids Eat Free – While Mr. Superhero and I are proud MINKs, we recognize that our friends who have children still enjoy dining out from time to time. Below you will find a list of kids-related dining deals (highly-discounted or free meals) sorted by day of the week.
*Please be sure to check with your local establishment, as there may be restrictions on some of these deals.*
Red Robin (kids 10 and under eat free)
Fuddruckers (4-9 PM – Kids 12 and under eat for $.99)
UNO Chicago Grill (One free kids meal with purchase of an adult entrée)
Chic-Fil-A (5:30-7:30 PM – Kids receive a free kids meal)
WEDNESDAY Qdoba Grill (All Day – Kids receive a free kids meal)
FRIDAY No deals to report – let us know in the comments below if you know of a great Friday deal!
SATURDAY Steak and Shake
SUNDAY No deals to report
DAILY DEALS On the Border
For more deals in your area, we recommend consulting KidsMealsDeals. If you live in Chicagoland, check out Kidwinks.
With all these great kids meal deals, I’m not sure what we’re waiting for in the family department, Mrs. Superhero!
Editorial note: I may or may not get smacked for this comment!
5. Look for Local Deals – I am constantly amazed by the number and variety of local deals which pop up during the week. One of my favorites is Mandiles in nearby Algonquin. On Tuesday’s, Mandile’s offers a great entrée for only $10: chicken parmesan, a side of pasta, and bread. The deal is available via dine-in or carry-out.
I recommend asking your friends and family about similar deals in your area. I’m the type of person who tells people in line about deals so they can get their meal cheaper. The last time I did this, the manager shot me a funny look, but that doesn’t deter me from helping others.
6. To Go Deals When In a Pinch – When time is precious or plans change in a hurry, pizza is our go-to meal.
For only $5, the Little Caesar’s Hot-N-Ready Pizza represents one of the best values on the market. My mom, who is the ultimate bargain hunter, can make amazing food on a low budget, but she calculated that it is cheaper to order a Hot-N-Ready Pizza than it is to bake her own at home.
Similarly, Domino’s currently offers three medium pizzas for $5.99 each. Despite Mr. Superhero’s nearly-insatiable appetite, we are able to order three pizzas and freeze several left over portions for days in which we don’t feel like cooking. This also saves us time, and as we all know, time is money!
7. Get Your Groupon – All of my friends know I have a slight obsession with Groupon, but it has saved us lots of money and has allowed us to do things that we normally would not have the money to do in our budget.
Within Groupon, you are able to search for restaurant deals in your particular location. However, always read the fine print; recently, I purchased a deal only to find out you could only use it on weekends. Fortunately, we still had a lovely night out during the week!
If you haven’t signed-up for Groupon yet, please sign-up using our referral link.
8. Utilize Restaurant.com – This amazing website helps you find deals for restaurants in your local area. Their app is very user-friendly, which eliminates the need to print certificates. By using this app, we have found fabulous deals at local steakhouses and other fine dining establishments, allowing us to dine like kings while paying pauper-like prices. The most common Restaurant.com offer is $10 for a $25 gift certificate. Check out the Restaurant.comofferings in your area by following the link and entering your zip code.
9. Ask About Specials – When arriving at a restaurant or calling in a carry out order, always be sure to ask about specials. Servers often forget to mention specials, and you may miss out on a great deal if you don’t ask.
10. Share, Share, Share – Mr. Superhero is not a big fan of sharing his food, but many of our couple friends go to Panera, order the Take Two option, and share their meal as a couple. We definitely did this at times during college when we were young and broke.
Special thanks to Mrs. Superhero for putting together these 10 tips for dining on a dime, allowing me to order my own meals, and making sure I don’t starve!
Last week, the state of Illinois finally passed what I would describe as a “Band-Aid” budget. While politicians largely celebrated this move and patted themselves on the back, their budget does very little to solve the gaping wound that is the state of financial chaos in which Illinois currently finds itself.
As I read the headlines and a few articles, I marveled at the difficulty the legislature faced in passing a budget. As you may or may not know, Illinois recently went an entire fiscal year without a budget. This standoff made previous budget delays (18 days in 1991, multiple delays of several weeks in the 2000s, and the bitter standoffs of recent years) look like small blips on the radar.
While Governor Rauner and Speaker Madigan set aside partisan gridlock long enough to pass a budget, public schools, state universities, and social service agencies are from celebrating. To the detriment of the citizens of Illinois, the finger pointing between Republicans and Democrats will surely resume and intensify in the next months.
Right around the time that Governor Rauner was delivering his press conference regarding the new budget, I sat down to review my planned budget for July 2016. Since September 2009, I have created a unique monthly budget using Gazelle Budget, the online software platform created Dave Ramsey’s team at Ramsey Solutions. That makes 71 unique budgets. It felt good to add yet another accomplishment to the mental list of ways in which I put the state of Illinois to shame.
MY FIRST BUDGET
As I often do when completing a budget, I took a look through the archives to see how Mrs. Superhero and I have come. My trek brought me back to September 2009, the month in which I created my very first budget.
In September 2009, I was a newly-employed, engaged bachelor, living independently for the first time in my life. Less than one week before the new public school year started, I accepted a job offer to teach music about 25 miles away from my university campus. With a week to prepare, I scrambled to locate housing, sign my contract, and prepare for a radical life change.
At the time, I had barely a tiny inkling of how to responsibly manage my money. I had recently read The Total Money Makeoverin record speed, but I didn’t know the first thing about budgeting an “adult” paycheck. This was going to be the first time I had ever earned a paycheck which included a comma in the amount field!
After reading about Gazelle Budget (which is being replaced soon by EveryDollar), I purchased an 18 month membership, which included access to all three hours (ad free) of the Dave Ramsey Show podcast, for $89.95. Moments later, I created my first budget.
I began by projecting my total net income for the month, $2,357.29 in total. In that moment, I recall feeling pretty wealthy. I continued by inputting my desired charitable giving ($236 – 10%), rent ($400 – I rented a room in a two-bedroom condo from a friend-of-a-friend), food ($305 – for groceries and restaurants), and my debt obligations ($50 car payment and $200 credit card bill). From that point, I filled out the budget with an estimate of utilities, transportation (gas, car insurance, and routine maintenance), clothing (new work clothes and change for laundry), personal spending (spending moneyblow money Starbucks fund, books, gifts, hair cut, toiletries, and the Gazelle Budget subscription), and savings (emergency fund and honeymoon fund).
As you can see above, my projections for spending (middle column) were not entirely accurate when compared with my actual spending (leftmost column) at the end of the month. In fact, despite projecting a zero-based budget, I spent more money than I earned in September 2009.
This was hardly a Superhero effort.
On the other hand, the percentages of my categorical spending mimicked responsible spending.
THE TROUBLE WITH PROJECTIONS
For the first full month of living on my own, I updated my budget on a daily basis. I kept a stack of receipts for all cash purchases and utilized internet banking to reconcile all other transactions. Yet despite my diligence, I was still brand-new to the process of budgeting.
As you can see below, I overspent considerably on food and personal spending; I had budgeted a combined $572.29, approximately 24% of my net income, but at the end of the month, I had spent a combined $761.58, approximately 32% of net income.
When I broke these spending figures down further, I discovered that I had spent $156.50 at restaurants and $80.77 at Starbucks.
20 TIPS FOR THE BACHELOR’S OR BACHELORETTE’S BUDGET
I chose to present the above figures for two primary reasons. First, I wanted to prove that it is possible to build and maintain a monthly budget as a single person. Second, I wanted to be fully transparent about my early mistakes.
Yes, creating a budget is not always easy. It isn’t the cool thing to do, especially as a young 20-something fresh out of college. Even at age 30, I can still recall the temptation to throw caution to the wind and live it up. Heck, I almost went out and leased a car!
However, I still recall one of the most powerful motivators for a 20-something single: the desire to prove one’s independence. Creating a budget is one of the best ways to set out to accomplish this goal and appear to be an adult. If you don’t manage your money responsibly, you will surely appear to be a child to you parents and extended family.
To win with money as a bachelor or bachelorette, follow these 20 tips.
1. Share costs with a roommate.
In my case, I avoided spending $1,000 per month for a one-bedroom apartment and spent $400 to rent a home in a two-bedroom condo. By sharing costs in this manner, I avoided spending 40% of my net income on housing costs.
Housing is by far the biggest budget buster for the average bachelor or bachelorette. Spending within this category can be a difference-maker.
2. Gather an accurate picture of your monthly debt obligations.
When you are just starting out, you will feel the temptation to delay examining your debts, particularly if your student loans are still in deferment. Avoiding your debts will not make them go away, so gather this information, including total principal, interest rates, minimum payments, and loan terms for each debt. If you’re unsure or unclear about any debts, contact the appropriate customer service department right away. Also, you should check your credit report; remember, this can be done free of charge once per year with each of the major credit reporting bureaus.
3. Prepare your own meals and cook at home as much as possible.
As a single young adult, preparing your own meals will accomplish two goals: you will save money, and you will not gain weight eating low nutrition/high calorie fast food. As an added bonus, you will be able to host your dates for dinner and impress them with your fine culinary skills. They’ll expect Ramen, and you’ll blow them away with shrimp creole!
Ladies, don’t forget, the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
4. Maintain a college lifestyle, at least in terms of spending.
When your first paycheck rolls in, you will immediately experience the temptation to buy everything in sight. If you establish an unreasonable level of spending out of the gate, you will set yourself up for failure. As much as possible, continue to live a college lifestyle (i.e. behave as if you are poor), within reason, of course.
5. Do not go out and buy a new (or new to you) vehicle.
You need to get used to living on a budget first in order to determine what you can or cannot afford in a new vehicle. Don’t allow pride and vanity to influence your decision-making process. If your current vehicle gets you from point A to B, it’s a keeper – at least for a few months.
6. Invest in a decent coffee maker with a timer function and brew your own coffee at home.
I learned this the hard way when at the end of my first budgeted month I had spent $80.77 on coffee on my way to work. I had a decent Mr. Coffee coffeemaker, but it didn’t have a timer feature. If I happened to be running late to work in the morning, I resorted to a quick Starbucks stop, which cost me significant money without adding any perceived value (neither happiness-wise nor nutritionally speaking).
7. Stay in.
Fortunately, I did a good job of this. My wife-to-be and I enjoyed cooking dinner at my condo and watching reruns of The Office. I know that many single people will feel the temptation and be pulled into the expensive night life scene, but do so within reason. Invite friends or your significant other back to your place, where food and drinks are cheap.
8. Find affordable dates with Groupon and Restaurant.com . I’m not even sure if Groupon and Restaurant.com existed back when I was a bachelor, but taking advantage of them today is a key part of our dining out experience. With either platform, you can purchase certificates for what is usually a fraction of the value, which allows you to realize significant savings and still enjoy a night out. The most common Restaurant.com offer is $10 for a $25 gift certificate. Check out the Restaurant.comofferings in your area by following the link and entering your zip code.
9. Build an emergency fund as quickly as possible.
As a young single person, building an emergency fund is the definition of adulting. Without an emergency fund, you will face unexpected expenses and be forced to swipe your credit card. Or worse yet, you may have to beg your parents for a loan or a gift.
10. Begin charitable giving right away.
While I have always given 10% to charity and missions organizations, I know this isn’t for everyone. If you’re not a natural giver, start small. Even $1 or $10 per month will benefit worthwhile organizations. If you’re not into structured giving, pay it forward and purchase the coffee or meal for the driver of the vehicle behind you in the drive-thru.
I strongly believe that regular, consistent giving is a key to winning with money. The act of giving teaches you that money is not an asset to be horded, stockpiled, wasted, or worshipped, but a tool to help yourself and others.
Remember, you will fail at this at first. Over and over and over. However, I found comfort in a Dave Ramsey quote during my initial months of struggle with my budget:
Adults devise a plan and stick to it. Children do what feels good. -Dave Ramsey
12. Accept that your budget projections will rarely be perfect.
On a related note, embrace your budget mistakes as they occur. Be willing to adjust your budget several times during the first several months.
13. Share your budget with a friend who is wise with his or her finances.
Accountability is helpful for everyone. It is part of the reason why I write this blog. A good budget is not inflexible.
14. Tell yourself every day that instant-gratification isn’t all that gratifying.
A few days ago, I read that the average person only waits 5 seconds for a web page to open before becoming irritated and moving on. Clearly, we live in a culture which embraces speed and instant results over patience.
You will need to learn to delay your desires in order to maintain a successful budget. Make a plan and stick to it.
15. Don’t worry about investing money right out of the gate.
In the personal finance blogging community, the suggestion to delay investing for retirement is utter blasphemy! However, I believe that there are better uses for your first months of pay. Make sure your budget is in order, build an emergency fund, and take time to research your investment options. When the time comes to invest, look into low-cost options through Betterment and Motif Investing. You will be glad that you waited.
16. Identify your values and be sure that your budget follows them.
If you’re not sure where to start with values-based budgeting, check out my two part series on budgeting with values in mind:
Writing V-SMART Goals is the best way to accomplish your goals.
18. Be transparent with your friends and family about your budget.
It is OK to explain that you are striving to manage your spending responsibly. In fact, if you keep your budget goals a secret, it will be more difficult to stick to your budget, as co-workers will invite you out for happy hour drinks and apps every Friday. Just be up front and honest.
19. As follow-up to number 18, be willing to say “no.”
If you want to live on a budget and win with money, you will likely hurt people’s feelings from time to time.
20. Avoid making any purchases on impulse.
If you are considering a sizeable purchase, write it down and check back again in thirty days. See my recent piece, The Thirty Day List, for a step-by-step process on delaying purchases.
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Readers, what budget tips do you have for singles?
In my previous post , I proposed that because change is inevitable, we should do anything and everything within our power to take action to create positive changes, thereby pursuing continual growth. In order to effectively pursue this growth, a wise Superhero should create goals. Before we unpack these ideas further in relation to our personal finances, I want to make some important distinctions.
Goals Are Empty Without a Foundation of Values
If you think you are motivated by goals and achievement, you are wrong. “But I have achieved a lot in my life,” you say. Congratulations! I want you to achieve all of your goals. I certainly want to achieve all of my own goals. However, the goal itself is not the driving force, as we saw when reflecting upon the rapid rise of a young phenom named Michael Jordan. Values are the driving force for meaningful goals. Show me a significant goal, and I will point out the values that underpin the goal.
Side note: It is possible to achieve a significant goal that is not underpinned by one of your highest values. For example, I could set a goal to complete a triathlon in 2017. Do I think I could complete this goal? Absolutely. Do I have any interest? No. Why? While I value Health and Personal Wellness, the driving value that leads me to exercise is Leisure, believe it or not. Swimming and biking are not nearly as leisurely to me as is running -I know, feel free to groan. However, I think we all can agree I am pretty likely to phone it on the triathlon and end up running a marathon instead.
Discover Your Values
Now that we have seen the importance of our values in relationship to our financial goals, allow me to present a few simple questions which are designed to help you quickly identify your values. All of the following questions are related to the concept of Purpose. Think of Purpose as the reason you wake up in the morning.
What or whom do you live for?
What activities and experiences provide you with deep fulfillment?
How do you best contribute to the world?
What kind of legacy do you wish to leave?
Honest and in-depth answers to these questions should point you clearly to your Purpose and, subsequently, a set of easily identifiable values. Alternatively, values may point to purpose, depending upon how your line of thinking.
Think of Purpose as the reason you wake up in the morning.
A Non-Financial Example of Values and Purpose
During a European college band tour in 2005, I met a Pastor in a small Austrian town who clearly understood his life’s purpose, identified his values, and adhered to them by his actions. As he told me his story, I was fascinated by the seemingly-disconnected details of his remarkable life. This was a man who had grown up in the US, yet here he was, complete with a southern drawl and Colonel Sanders beard, leading a flourishing congregation in a picturesque town nestled between snow-capped mountains. Curious, I asked him how he had been called to his position. His response, which puzzled me for years, is much clearer today in light of my understanding of the principles of purpose and connected values:
“Called? I wasn’t called. I had to go.”
This was a man who knew his purpose and acted upon it. I believe he was compelled to do so. He left his comfort zone in order to fulfill his purpose, and at the intersection of purpose, values, and action, he found fulfillment.
What Happens When We Discover Our Values and Purpose?
Like the Pastor above, when we discover our values and purpose, we will naturally shift toward spending the majority of our time and energy on impactful activities. Hint: Highly-successful people do not watch 6 hours of television and compulsively check their Facebook feeds every fifteen minutes. Successful people allow their purpose and values to drive their actions.
Your Financial Values
Armed with knowledge of your personal values, now let us answer the following adapted questions:
What is your primary reason for earning money?
What use of your money do you find most fulfilling?
How do you best contribute to your financial well-being?
What kind of financial legacy do you wish to leave?
I believe the answers to these questions will show you your Financial Values. Here is an example, which utilizes my brief answers to the above questions:
What is your primary reason for earning money?
Living well in the present and the future.
What use of your money do you find most fulfilling?
Giving to others.
How do you best contribute to your financial well-being?
Carefully managing my family’s income to ensure it aligns with your goals and values.
What kind of financial legacy do you wish to leave?
I wish to change my family tree and have an impact that is several generations deep without breeding a sense of entitlement in my children and grandchildren.
Did you notice any themes? My financial values are Moderation, Giving, Stewardship, Order, and Dependability. I craft each monthly budget with these values in mind.
How to Start Values-Based Budgeting
I strongly believe that getting on board with a values-based budgeting approach can be the boost you need to reinvigorate your financial pursuits, expand your horizons, and achieve your dreams. Here are a few examples of how this approach has revolutionized my own budgeting process in the past few months:
Mrs. Superhero and I discovered that our spending on restaurants and expensive dinners was far out of alignment with our values. Yes, we value time for relaxation, and spending money on a night out certainly provides that. However, we realized we were not gaining additional relaxation benefits from dining at a local five-star steakhouse versus spending $20 at Red Robin. This freed up a significant percentage of our budget, which we re-dedicated toward toward saving and reducing debt.
I am strongly considering reducing or eliminating my cable TV package. Intellectually, I grasp the enormous benefits just waiting to be realized when and if I pull the trigger on this change. For me, cutting the cord will be equivalent to what many people experience when they cut up a credit card they have had for decades. It will be painful, but I am starting to realize I value my financial independence far more than the ability to access hundreds of channels. As a sports fanatic, I will, however, need to ensure that I have alternate systems in place prior to cutting the cord.
Mrs. Superhero works extremely hard in her day job as a music teacher and as a self-made entrepreneur with her music lesson studio. After discussing her values, she and I have decided to reinvest more of her income in needed items for the studio in the near future, such as tablets, method books, and an accounting service.
To get started, ask yourself the following questions:
How can my values influence my goals and my budget?
Make a list of your values and keep them near by as you assemble your budget.
How do my recent actions misalign with my values?
Track your spending actions for one week (or better, one month) and connect them with your associated values. If they do not align, you have discovered an opportunity to improve your budget.
How do my recent actions align with my values?
Continue to implement these steps to stay on track.
What false values are indicated by the patterns of my actions?
For example, am I spending too much money on restaurants, clothing, or miscellaneous categories, all at the expense of other goals?
Build on SMART Goals to Achieve Success
When you have built a successful budget that have been able to adhere to for several months, you are on track to achieve your goals. If you discover that you are not sticking to your budget, I have one final recommendation.
Most people today are familiar with the concept of SMART Goals. Smart goals are intended to be Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Time-Oriented. I would like to propose a simple addition to this concept.
You guessed it: Values.
Introducing the V-SMART Goal: Values-based, Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Time-Oriented
I believe that the creation of V-SMART Goals can be the jolt that you may need to finally establish goals and retain the momentum and desire to fully accomplish them. Allow me to provide a simple example:
SMART Goal: I will pay off $5,000 of debt on my MasterCard prior to July 1, 2016, by limiting my discretionary spending in the areas of Clothing and Entertainment.
V-SMART Goal: In order to align with my values of Stewardship and Financial Independence, I will pay off $5,000 of debt on my MasterCard prior to July 1, 2016, by limiting my discretionary spending in the areas of Clothing and Entertainment.
Just by making a simple distinction like you read above and keeping values at the forefront of your mind, I am confident you will increase your success. The consideration of values has added a new depth and breadth to financial planning and budgeting for me and Mrs. Superhero. It is supporting faster achievement of our goals.
To bring this post to its conclusion, I would like to leave you with a profound reminder from Henry David Thoreau:
What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals.
Author John Maxwell is famous for countless best-selling books. He is considered America’s Expert On Leadership. I feel that title sells him short, as Maxwell also knows a thing or two about finances. While I have many favorite Maxwell-isms memorized, the following quote may be my favorite:
Change is inevitable. Growth is optional.
Why? I appreciate it for its simplicity. I appreciate it for its truth. And I appreciate its implications upon my finances.
To me, it is a call to action. I cannot halt change, whether it be in my personal life, career, or finances, no matter how much I may wish I could. But I can choose my response to change. I can choose to pursue growth.
A Growth Mindset Starts with Values
Many people choose to pursue growth by establishing goals and then striving to achieve them. They develop plans, identify benchmarks to track progress, and dive in head first. While this is admirable and certainly better than wandering through life aimlessly, I believe this approach narrowly misses the mark. It reduces growth into a destination at which one may arrive rather than as a continual process.
In order to properly frame the pursuit of growth, I believe one must view it through the lens of values.
Values – Actionable But Not Achievable
Why are values the key to the proper pursuit of growth? Values articulate what is most important to a person. When a person has identified her values, she has realized the foundational reasons for the pursuit of growth. These are the reasons a person might provide when asked why they are so vigorously pursuing growth in a particular area. Goals alone do not serve to provide these foundational reasons.
For example, suppose Susan has identified a goal: to make the varsity basketball team. Again, the reasons “why?” could be a number of reasons. Perhaps Susan is motivated by competition. Perhaps friendships are a driving force. Or maybe she is seeking to follow in the footsteps of her older sister. At any rate, an end date is embedded within this goal. At the end of tryouts, Susan will have either achieved her goal or failed. Further growth will be halted as her motivation dissipates.
Now, suppose instead Susan has identified a set of values to support her pursuit of the aforementioned goal. Susan understands that Contribution, Fitness, and Achievement are the key values supporting the goal. With these values underpinning her goal of making the basketball team, Susan is on the pathway toward continual growth. Her goal is not the sole motivating force, as the values drive and underpin the goal.
If you’re not buying my philosophy or nodding your head in agreement at this point, pause with me and consider the case of Michael Jordan. Maybe you’ve heard of him. Now, contrary to popular legend, Jordan was not cut from his high school varsity basketball team as a sophomore; he simply was placed on the jayvee roster. However, that fact is immaterial to our discussion. Had Jordan been solely motivated by a goal -to make the varsity basketball team- rather than values -such as self-worth, achievement, and challenge- he may have decided to turn away from the face of failure and focus on baseball. As you know, Jordan was driven to make the varsity team the following year. Of course, the rest is history. A commitment to his personal values made Michael Jordan the most-recognizable and arguably most-successful athlete of his time.
While goals are achievable, values are only actionable (but not achievable) in nature. Let me provide an additional example. I may set a goal to lose five pounds. When I achieve the goal, I have arrived. By arriving, momentum and motivation are halted. (This is why many people experience the “yo-yo” effect when pursuing weight loss.) When I identify Health as a value, I cannot “arrive.” I must continually seek to live out my desires to be healthy. Values sustain ongoing growth, while goals unsupported by values do not. This ongoing momentum – the drive to keep bettering oneself- is near to the heart of growth.
Aligning Values and Finances
If we accept the notion that change is inevitable, we would be wise to strive to make the best of it by choosing to pursue growth in everything we do, including our personal finances. Yes, to most effectively pursue growth, we should establish goals, but only after careful consideration is given to values. In my next post, we will outline how to identify values and implement a value-driven plan which will lead to the achievement of your financial goals.
In short, our process will become:
Identify values. Take action. Create positive change.
Readers, what are your goals? What are your values? Are they aligned? How do you strive to keep your goals fresh and at the forefront of your personal financial pursuits? Share your thoughts and questions in the comments section below.